Kodi m'mphepete mwake ndi ndani? Masiku ano mawuwa akukhala otchuka kwambiri, chifukwa amatha kumveka pa TV kapena pa intaneti. Komabe, si aliyense amene amadziwa tanthauzo lenileni la mawuwa.
Munkhaniyi, tikufotokozerani yemwe amatchedwa wotsutsidwa komanso nthawi yoyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa.
Amkati mwake ndi ndani
Kumasuliridwa kuchokera ku Chilatini, mawu oti "m'mbali" amatanthauza - m'mphepete mwake. Munthu wam'mbali kapena wapakatikati ndi munthu yemwe ali m'malire amitundu yosiyanasiyana, machitidwe, zikhalidwe, ndi zina zambiri, koma sawalandira kwathunthu.
Mwachidule, m'mphepete mwake ndi munthu amene sazindikira miyezo ndi malamulo amakhalidwe abwino. Pankhaniyi, munthu atha kukhala onse mwa kufuna kwake komanso chifukwa chakunja.
Mwachitsanzo, mutha kukhala munthu woperewera chifukwa cha mavuto ndi anthu, bankirapuse, kukana zipembedzo, komanso pazandale, zamakhalidwe kapena zathupi (matenda, kulumala). Pali matanthauzidwe angapo amawu awa:
- munthu wapatsogolo ndi chinthu chokhala kunja kwa magulu (chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, ndalama, ndale, ndi zina);
- chapakatikati - munthu yemwe alibe chidwi ndi zochitika za anthu ena omwe amalumikizidwa ndi zolinga kapena zosangalatsa zosiyanasiyana.
- wam'mbali - munthu yemwe, pazifukwa zina, sanatulukidwe mgulu (wosalidwa).
Mavuto andale, kusintha kwa zovomerezeka kapena zikhalidwe zaboma, kusintha kwaulamuliro, ndi zina zambiri kumatha kuyambitsa mayendedwe amunthu. Kuphatikiza apo, munthu amatha kuponderezedwa chifukwa cha mavuto amitundu.
Mwachitsanzo, atasamukira kudziko lina, munthu atha kukhala osakwanitsa kusintha malingaliro am'deralo: miyambo, machitidwe, malamulo, kusankhana mitundu, ndi zina zotero. Zotsatira zake, munthu wotere amasalidwa, amasankha kutsatira moyo wake komanso mfundo zake.
Kungakhale kulakwa kuwona kuchepa kwa malire kukhala koyipa. M'malo mwake, m'mphepete, mosiyana ndi anthu omuzungulira, amatengera kwambiri umunthu komanso kusowa kwa "gulu" lalingaliro. Makhalidwe otere nthawi zambiri amakhala asayansi kapena ojambula chifukwa chokhala ndi mutu wawo pamapewa awo ndipo saopa kutsutsidwa ndi ena.
