Kulolerana ndi chiyani? Mawuwa amatha kumveka kuchokera kwa anthu, komanso kupezeka pa intaneti. Zachidziwikire kuti ambiri a inu mwamvapo mawu monga "kulolerana" kapena "simundilekerera."
M'nkhaniyi tikufotokozerani tanthauzo la mawuwa, komanso momwe angagwiritsire ntchito.
Kodi kulolerana kumatanthauza chiyani?
Kumasuliridwa kuchokera ku Chilatini, mawu oti "kulolerana" kwenikweni amatanthauza "kuleza mtima." Kulekerera ndi lingaliro lomwe limatanthawuza kulolerana pamaganizidwe osiyanasiyana, moyo, machitidwe ndi miyambo.
Tiyenera kudziwa kuti kulolerana sikofanana ndi kusayanjanitsika. Sizimatanthauzanso kuvomereza malingaliro kapena machitidwe ena, koma zimangopatsa ena ufulu wokhala momwe angafunire.
Mwachitsanzo, pali anthu pafupi ndi ife omwe ali ndi malingaliro osiyana achipembedzo, ndale kapena zamakhalidwe, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti ndi oyipa chifukwa choti ali ndi mawonekedwe osiyana.
Mosiyana ndi izi, kulolerana kumatanthauza ulemu, kuvomereza ndikumvetsetsa bwino zikhalidwe zina, komanso kuwonetseredwa kwaumunthu. Nthawi yomweyo, chiwonetsero chololerana sichitanthauza kulolerana kopanda chilungamo, kukana malingaliro anu kapena kukakamiza ena.
Koma apa ndikofunikira kugawaniza kulolerana kwakukulu komanso makamaka. Mutha kulekerera zigawenga - izi ndi zachinsinsi, koma osati mlandu womwewo - izi ndizofala.
Mwachitsanzo, bambo wina ankaba chakudya kuti azidyetsa ana ake. Mutha kuwonetsa kudzimvera chisoni komanso kumvetsetsa (kulekerera) kwa munthu woteroyo, koma nkhani yakuba sikuyenera kuonedwa choncho, apo ayi chisokonezo chidzayamba padziko lapansi.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti kulolerana kumawonekera m'malo osiyanasiyana: ndale, mankhwala, chipembedzo, maphunziro, maphunziro, psychology ndi madera ena ambiri.
Chifukwa chake, m'mawu osavuta, kulolerana kumawonetsedwa pakulekerera anthu ndikuzindikira ufulu wawo wokhala ndi ufulu wamalingaliro awo, miyambo, chipembedzo, ndi zina zambiri. Nthawi yomweyo, mutha kutsutsana ndi malingaliro a munthuyo ngakhale kuwatsutsa, ndikungokhala ololera munthuyo.