Kukayikira ndi chiyani? Mawuwa amatha kumveka kawirikawiri, kuchokera kwa anthu komanso pawailesi yakanema. Koma ambiri samvetsetsa ngakhale ngati kuli bwino kukhala wosuliza kapena ayi, ndipo makamaka momwe zilili zoyenera kugwiritsa ntchito dzinali.
Munkhaniyi tikufotokozerani zamatsenga komanso momwe angadziwonetsere.
Kusinkhasinkha ndi ndani komanso wosuliza
Kusuliza - uku ndikunyoza poyera zikhalidwe, miyambo ndi zikhulupiriro, komanso kukana kotheratu miyambo, malamulo, miyambo, ndi zina zambiri.
Osuliza - uyu ndi munthu yemwe samanyalanyaza malamulo okhazikitsidwa, omwe, pakumvetsetsa kwake, amamulepheretsa kukwaniritsa cholinga chake. Izi zimabweretsa mfundo yoti mwa kukana ma postulates ndi miyambo yovomerezeka, chifundo, chisoni, manyazi ndi zina zimayamba kukhala zopanda pake, chifukwa zimatsutsana ndi zofuna zake.
Nthawi zambiri munthu amakhala wotsutsa chifukwa chosalangidwa. Mwachitsanzo, amadzilola kuti asalemekeze anthu kapena kuphwanya dala lamulo lomwe alibe mlandu. Zotsatira zake, munthuyo amakula kwambiri.
Komabe, nthawi zambiri amakhala osuliza chifukwa chokhumudwitsidwa ndi wina kapena china. Zotsatira zake, anthu oterewa amagwiritsa ntchito njira zodzitetezera pamaganizidwe ngati kuwukira kwamitundu yonse yozungulira.
Ndipo izi ndi zomwe woganiza komanso katswiri wamasamu waku Britain a Bertrand Russell adanena: "Osuliza samangokhulupirira zomwe auzidwa, koma sakhulupirira chilichonse."
Tiyenera kudziwa kuti kukayikira kumatha kuonedwa ngati malamulo amayiko angapo ngati chizindikiro cha mlandu. Mwachitsanzo, munthu atha kumulanga mwankhanza kwambiri ngati kupusitsana kwake adatsagana ndi "kukayikira kwapadera" - kunyoza odwala kapena okalamba, kuwonetsa kusachita manyazi, zonyansa kwambiri, komanso kukwiya motsutsana ndi miyambo, chipembedzo, zamakhalidwe kapena zikhalidwe.
