Zolemba Zaubwenzizoperekedwa pagulu ili zikuthandizani kumvetsetsa zambiri zaubwenzi. Kupatula apo, malingaliro a anthu otchuka ndiopindulitsa.
Ubwenzi ndi ubale wopanda chidwi pakati pa anthu kutengera zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe amakonda, kulemekezana, kumvana ndi kuthandizana.
Ubwenzi umaphatikizapo kumumvera chisoni komanso kumukonda, komanso kumakhudza zochitika zapamtima kwambiri, zam'mutu wamunthu.
Kwa zaka mazana ambiri, ubwenzi wakhala ukuwonedwa ngati umodzi mwamakhalidwe abwino kwambiri amunthu.
Mwa njira, mvetserani mwachidule buku lotchuka la Carnegie Momwe Mungapambitsire Anzanu ndi Kukopa Anthu.
Chifukwa chake, musanasankhidwe kuchokera kwa anthu otchuka onena zaubwenzi. Pali malingaliro olimba komanso ozama, komanso zongonena zamatsenga za abwenzi komanso malingaliro ochezeka.
Mawu abwenzi
Mu umphawi ndi zovuta zina m'moyo, abwenzi enieni ndi malo otetezeka.
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Onse amamvera chisoni masautso a anzawo, ndipo owerengeka okha ndi omwe amasangalala ndi kuchita bwino kwawo.
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Kupusa ndi nzeru ndizosavuta kuzimva ngati matenda opatsirana. Chifukwa chake, sankhani anzanu.
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Maso aubwenzi nthawi zambiri amakhala olakwika.
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Mupanga abwenzi ambiri m'miyezi iwiri ndikukhala ndi chidwi ndi anthu ena kuposa momwe mungapangire zaka ziwiri poyesa kukopa anthu ena kuti azikukondani.
Dale Carnegie
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Opani ubwenzi wa munthu woyipa monga kudana ndi woonamtima.
Francois Fenelon
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Pokambirana pamasom'pamaso pakati pa abwenzi apamtima, anthu anzeru nthawi zambiri amakhala osaganiza bwino, chifukwa kuyankhula ndi bwenzi ndikofanana ndikuganiza mokweza.
Joseph Addison
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Mbale sangakhale bwenzi, koma bwenzi nthawi zonse amakhala m'bale.
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Sankhani bwenzi pang'onopang'ono, osafulumira kuti musinthe.
B. Franklin
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Zowonadi, munthu wapafupi kwambiri ndi amene amadziwa zakale, amakhulupirira zamtsogolo, ndipo amakulandirani momwe mulili.
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Mukaphunzira chinsinsi kuchokera kwa bwenzi, musamupereke posakhala mdani: simumenya mdani, koma ubale.
Democritus
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Mawu oseketsa komanso apabanja onena zaubwenzi wochokera kwa mbuye wazotengera:
Ubwenzi wasintha kwambiri kotero kuti umalola kusakhulupirika, sungasowe misonkhano, kulemberana makalata, kukambirana motentha, komanso kulola kupezeka kwa mnzake m'modzi.
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Mkazi ndi cholengedwa chomwe chimafuna kukondedwa. Ngati simukudziwa kukonda - khalani ndi anzanu!
M. Zhvanetsky
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Ubwenzi ndiwowopsa kuposa chikondi - umatha nthawi yayitali.
O. Wilde
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Chikondi chimatha popanda kubwezerana, koma ubale sunatero.
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Ubwenzi weniweni ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe, monga njoka zazikulu zam'nyanja, sizikudziwika, kaya ndi zongopeka kapena zilipo kwinakwake.
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Pokambirana wina ndi mzake, azimayi amatsanzira mzimu wogwirizana komanso zowona zachinsinsi zomwe samadzilora okha ndi amuna. Koma kuseri kwa mawonekedwe ofanana aubwenzi - kuchuluka kwamphamvu kusakhulupilira, ndi momwe, kuvomereza, kuli koyenera.
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Kuti tithandizidwe ndi abwenzi, tiyenera kuyamikira ntchito zawo kuposa momwe iwo amachitira, ndipo zomwe timakonda kwa anzathu, ziyenera kuonedwa ngati zochepa kuposa momwe amaganizira.
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Mawu ozama, ngakhale okhumudwitsa onena zaubwenzi wochokera kwa wamkulu wa aphorisms (mwa njira, yang'anani mawu osankhidwa ndi La Rochefoucauld):
Anthu nthawi zambiri amatcha ubale kukhala chinthu chophatikizika, kuthandizana mu bizinesi, kusinthana kwa ntchito - mwa mawu amodzi, ubale womwe kudzikonda kumayembekezera kupeza kena kake.
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Bwenzi lamantha ndilowopsa kuposa mdani, chifukwa mumaopa mdani, koma mumayembekezera bwenzi.
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Kusangalala ndi kulankhulana ndichizindikiro chachikulu chaubwenzi.
Aristotle
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Ubwenzi ndi sukulu yophunzitsira malingaliro amunthu.
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M'mawu awa onena zaubwenzi, pali chinyengo china chodziwika bwino cha wolemba mbiri wotchuka waku Russia:
Ubwenzi nthawi zambiri umakhala ngati kusintha kuchoka podziwana pang'ono ndikukhala chidani.
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Ubwenzi wapakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi ubale wa omwe kale anali okonda kapena amtsogolo.
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Mawu awiri oyipitsitsa padziko lapansi ndi awa: "Ndiyenera kulankhula nanu" komanso "Ndikukhulupirira kuti tidzakhalabe abwenzi." Choseketsa ndichakuti, nthawi zonse amatsogolera kutsutsana, kusokoneza zokambirana komanso mabwenzi.
Frederic Beigbeder
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Panjira ndi mndende ,ubwenzi umabadwa nthawi zonse ndipo luso la munthu limawonetsedwa kowala.
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Osakokomeza kupusa kwa adani komanso kukhulupirika kwa anzanu.
M. Zhvanetsky
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Mawu anzeru kwambiri onena zaubwenzi kuchokera kwa wafilosofi wodziwika ku Germany:
Amati ndizovuta kupeza bwenzi lomwe likusowa. M'malo mwake, mukangopanga zibwenzi ndi wina, mumawona kuti mnzanuyo akusowa kale ndipo akuyesetsa kuti abwereke ndalama.
Arthur Schopenhauer
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Palibe okongoza kapena opindulitsa paubwenzi.
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Sindikondera kubayidwa kwa mdani, koma chikhomo cha mnzanga chimandipweteka.
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Muubwenzi, palibe kuwerengera ndi kulingalira, kupatula paokha.
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M'moyo, chikondi chodzikonda chimapezeka kwambiri kuposa ubwenzi weniweni.
Jean de La Bruyere
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Pali ubale wochepa padziko lapansi - ochepera onse ofanana.
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Mu maubwenzi ndi anzanu, alangizeni kuti achite zomwe angathe kuchita, ndikuwatsogolera ku zabwino, osaphwanya ulemu, koma osayesa kuchita zinthu zomwe palibe chiyembekezo chodzachita bwino. Osadziika pamanyazi.
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M'dziko losakhulupirika, musakhale opusa:
Osayesa kudalira omwe akukhala pafupi nanu.
Yang'anani mnzanu wapamtima ndi diso losasamala
Bwenzi lingakhale mdani woipitsitsa.
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Chidani chachikulu chodziwika chimapanga ubale wolimba.
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Maubwenzi obwezerezedwanso amafunika chisamaliro chochulukirapo kuposa omwe sanasokonezedwepo.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
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Chofunika kwambiri paubwenzi sikumusonyeza mnzanu zofooka zathu, koma kuti mutsegule maso ake.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
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Bwenzi lokhulupirika limadziwika ndi ntchito yolakwika.
Annius Quint
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Ngati muli paubwenzi ndi munthu wolumala, inunso mumayamba kuyenda motsimphina.
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Nkhondo imakumana ndi olimba mtima, mkwiyo wa anzeru, ndikusowa, mnzake.
Nzeru zakummawa
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Ubwenzi ndikumverera kopatulika, kokoma, kwamuyaya komanso kosatha kotero kuti kumatha kusungidwa kwanthawi yayitali, pokhapokha mutayesa kufunsa ngongole.
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Ubwenzi umachulukitsa zisangalalo ndikuchepetsa zisoni.
Francis Bacon
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Khalani owona mtima ndi anzanu, osowa zosowa zanu komanso osadzikonda.
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Kumene ubwenzi umafooka, ulemu wamwambo umakulirakulira.
William Shakespeare
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Ambuye adatipatsa achibale, koma tili ndi ufulu wosankha anzathu.
Ethel Mumford
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Mawu ozama kwambiri okhudza ubwenzi. Ganizirani zomwe limanena:
Kukumbukira bwino ndiye maziko aubwenzi komanso imfa yachikondi.
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Osachititsidwa khungu ndiubwenzi chifukwa cha zofooka za bwenzi lanu, kapena kudana ndi mikhalidwe yabwino ya mdani wanu.
Confucius
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Timapeza anzathu osati polandila chithandizo kuchokera kwa iwo, koma powapatsa iwowo.
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Chilichonse chidzadutsa - ndipo tirigu sadzadzuka,
Chilichonse chomwe mwasunga chidzatayika ndi kobiri limodzi.
Ngati simugawira mnzanu munthawi yake
Chuma chako chonse chimapita kwa adani.
Omar Khayyam
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Ubwenzi wapakati pa akazi ndi pangano losachita nkhanza.
Mzinda wa Montherland
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3 ndipo m'moyo wanga ndatsimikiza kuti kucheza ndi anzanga kumatenga nthawi yovuta kwambiri komanso yosadziwika bwino; abwenzi amakhala akuba nthawi yayikulu ...
Francesco Petrarca
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Ndipo muubwenzi komanso mchikondi, posakhalitsa, nthawi yomaliza yothetsera zambiri ikubwera.
Bernard Show
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Kuwona mtima kwa ubale, kulumikizana koona - ndiwoubwenzi.
A. Suvorov
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Iye amene sadzifunira yekha mabwenzi ndiye mdani wake.
Shota Rustaveli
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Kudziwa zomwe mungakambirane ndi munthu ndi chisonyezo chakumvana. Mukakhala ndi kanthu kokhala chete limodzi, ichi ndiye chiyambi cha ubwenzi weniweni.
Max Fry
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Sacramenti limodzi lolumikizana mwamphamvu ndi abwenzi oyenera ndikumatha kukhululuka kusamvana ndikuwunikira mwachangu za zolakwa.
A. Suvorov
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Chovuta kwambiri muubwenzi ndikulingana ndi munthu wina pansi panu.
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Ndipo mawu awa onena zaubwenzi amafunikira chisamaliro chapadera. Nthawi zina anthu amaganiza kuti ubwenzi ndi chinthu chomwe chimangochitika chokha. M'malo mwake, imafunikira ntchito:
Pamaubwenzi abwino kwambiri, ochezeka komanso osavuta, kusyasyalika kapena kuyamika ndikofunikira, monganso mafuta amafunikira kuti magudumu ayende.
L. Tolstoy
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Ubwenzi wozama kwambiri umabweretsa udani wowawa kwambiri.
M. Montaigne
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Ulusi woyamba wamalumikizidwe amunthu umatha,
Kuti mugwirizane ndi ndani? Kodi kukonda? Ndani angakhale mabwenzi ake?
Palibe umunthu. Ndi bwino kupewa aliyense
Ndipo, osatsegula moyo wake, amalankhula zopanda pake.
O. Khayyam
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Aliyense amene, chifukwa chofuna phindu lake, angamukhumudwitse mnzake, alibe ufulu wokhala naye pachibwenzi.
Jean Jacques Rousseau
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Ubwenzi weniweni sudziwa kaduka, ndipo chikondi chenicheni chimakopana.
La Rochefoucauld
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Ngakhale chisoni chimakhala ndi chithumwa chake, ndipo wokondwa ndi amene amatha kulira pachifuwa cha mnzake, yemwe misozi iyi imapangitsa kuti mumve chisoni komanso kumumvera chisoni.
Pliny Wamng'ono
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Zambiri sizingachitike kwa bwenzi lodzipereka.
Henrik Ibsen
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Mabwenzi ena amakhala nthawi yayitali kuposa miyoyo ya anthu omwe adawalumikiza.
Max Fry
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Ubwenzi uli ngati diamondi: ndiyosowa, ndiokwera mtengo, ndipo pali zambiri zabodza.
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Mnzanu weniweni amakhala nanu mukalakwitsa. Mukanena zoona, aliyense adzakhala nanu.
Mark Twain
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Ubwenzi uli ngati chuma: sungaphunzire zambiri kuposa momwe umayikamo.
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