Magulu amisili, yomwe tikambirana m'nkhaniyi, isangalatsa aliyense amene akufuna kudziwa zaumunthu.
M'zaka za zana la 21, ndichangu komanso kuthekera kwake, nthawi zina timatengeka ndi zida zamagetsi zomwe timayiwaliratu zaumoyo wathu.
Mwina ndichifukwa chake matenda amisala amadziwika kuti ndi mliri wa nthawi yathu ino. Mwanjira ina iliyonse, ndikofunikira kudziwa za magulu ofunikira kwambiri amisala kwa aliyense wophunzira.
Munkhaniyi, tiwona ma syndromes 10 ofala kwambiri amisala omwe amakhudza moyo wamunthu amene ali nawo mwachindunji kapena ayi.
Okonda kuwerenga ndi kudziyendetsa bwino adzachita chidwi ndi izi.
Matenda a Duckling
Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti ankhandwe amatenga munthu woyamba kumuwona atabadwa kwa mayi. Kuphatikiza apo, sasamala kaya ndi bakha weniweni wa amayi kapena nyama ina, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale chinthu chopanda moyo. Chodabwitsa ichi chimadziwika mu psychology monga "kusindikiza", kutanthauza "kusindikiza".
Anthu nawonso atengeka ndi izi. Akatswiri amatcha duckling syndrome. Matendawa amadza chifukwa chakuti munthu amangoganiza kuti chinthu chomwe chimamuyang'ana ndiye chabwino kwambiri, ngakhale chikutsutsana ndi zenizeni.
Nthawi zambiri anthu omwe ali ndi khalidweli amakhala amagulu komanso osagwirizana ndi malingaliro a ena.
Mwachitsanzo, mnzanu adagula laputopu yake yoyamba ndi makina a Windows XP. Zaka zingapo zapita, ndipo dongosololi silinathandizidwenso ndi wopanga. Mumamupempha kuti akhazikitse zatsopano, koma savomereza.
Ngati mnzanu nthawi yomweyo amamvetsetsa kukula kwa machitidwe atsopano ndikunena moona mtima kuti amangogwiritsa ntchito Windows XP ndipo safuna kudziwa maulalo atsopano, ndiye malingaliro achinsinsi.
Ngati sazindikira mtundu wina uliwonse, poganiza kuti Windows XP ndiyabwino kwambiri pakati pa ena, ndiye kuti pali matenda a bakha. Nthawi yomweyo, atha kuvomereza kuti machitidwe ena ali ndi maubwino ena, koma ambiri a XP adzapambanabe pamaso pake.
Kuti muchotse matenda a duckling, muyenera kusanthula malingaliro anu nthawi zambiri pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro oganiza bwino. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi malingaliro a anthu okuzungulirani, gwiritsani ntchito zidziwitso kuchokera kumagwero osiyanasiyana, yesani kuyang'ana zinthu moyenera momwe zingathere ndikusankha chisankho pankhani inayake.
Matenda a Watchman
Matenda a porter, kapena a little boss syndrome, ndichinthu chodziwika bwino kwa pafupifupi aliyense amene adayendera ofesi yanyumba, ofesi ya pasipoti kapena chipatala.
Koma ngakhale simukudziwa bwino zikhalidwe za ogwira ntchito m'malo amenewa, zowonadi kuti aliyense wakumana ndi anthu omwe, osakhala ndiudindo wapamwamba kapena wokhala ndiudindo wina, amasangalaladi, nkumadzichitira okha anzawo. Munthu woteroyo akuwoneka kuti akunena kuti: "Ndine pano - mlonda, koma zakwanitsa chiyani?"
Ndipo chabwino zikadakhala chabe zamwano. Koma anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a mlonda nthawi zina amabweretsa mavuto akulu pamakhalidwe awo.
Mwachitsanzo, atha kufunsa zikalata zambiri zosafunikira, kutengera "malamulo" omwe sali pantchito yawo, ndikufunsa mafunso ambiri osafunikira omwe alibe chochita ndi mlanduwo mochitira bizinesi.
Monga lamulo, zonsezi zimatsagana ndi machitidwe amwano omwe amalire mwamwano.
Nthawi yomweyo, anthu oterewa akaona munthu wofunikadi, amadzisandutsa ulemu, kuyesera kuti amukonde m'njira iliyonse.
Nthawi zambiri, munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a mlonda amakhala wokhumudwa yemwe amayesetsa kubweza zolephera zake kupondereza ena.
Pochita ndi "mlonda", munthu ayenera kunyalanyaza machitidwe ake ndipo asalimbane naye. Mulimonsemo musapereke mwano, koma molimba mtima ndikupanga zofunikira, kuteteza ufulu wanu.
Kumbukirani kuti chofooka cha anthu otere ndikuopa kuvomereza udindo weniweni, osati wongoyerekeza. Chifukwa chake, musazengereze kunena kuti machitidwe awo atha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoipa.
Matenda a Dorian Gray
Matendawa, omwe adafotokozedwa koyamba mu 2001, adatchulidwa dzina la Oscar Wilde "Chithunzi cha Dorian Gray", yemwe adachita mantha kuwona bambo wokalamba wolimba pakalilore. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti akatswiri amaganiza kuti matendawa ndi chikhalidwe komanso chikhalidwe.
Anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli amayesetsa ndi mphamvu zawo zonse kuti asunge unyamata ndi kukongola, kudzimana chilichonse chifukwa cha izi. Zonsezi zimayamba ndikugwiritsa ntchito zodzoladzola mopitirira muyeso, kutha ndi zitsanzo zoyipitsitsa za kuchitidwa opaleshoni ya pulasitiki.
Tsoka ilo, kupembedza kwachinyamata kwamasiku ano ndikuwoneka bwino kumapanga lingaliro labodza lazowona, chifukwa chake anthu ena amayamba kudziona kuti ndi osayenera.
Nthawi zambiri amalipira ukalamba wachilengedwe wokhala ndi chizolowezi chazizindikiro za achinyamata ndi zovala. Narcissism ndi kusakhazikika kwamaganizidwe ndizofala pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli, pomwe zolakwika zazing'ono m'mawonekedwe zimabweretsa nkhawa komanso mantha nthawi zonse, zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri moyo.
Pansipa mutha kuwona chithunzi cha bilionea wazaka 73 Jocelyn Wildenstein, yemwe adachita maopaleshoni ambiri apulasitiki. Mutha kuwerenga zambiri za izi (ndikuwona chithunzi) Pano.
Matenda a Dorian Gray ndiofala pakati pa anthu wamba - akatswiri odziwika, ochita zisudzo ndi ena odziwika, ndipo atha kubweretsa kukhumudwa kwakukulu ngakhale kuyesa kudzipha.
Komabe, zimachitikanso ndi iwo omwe sali kutali ndi bizinesi yowonetsera.
Mwachitsanzo, ndimadziwa mkazi yemwe, mwambiri, amakhala munthu wabwinobwino poyankhulana. Koma iye, pokhala wazaka zopitilira 70, adadzoza milomo yofiira pamilomo yake, amakoka nsidze ndikumupaka zala zake. Kuphatikizidwa ndi khungu losalala la flabby, zonsezi zimapangitsa chidwi. Pa nthawi yomweyi, sazindikira kuti anthu akumuseka. Iye amaganiza kuti chifukwa cha zodzoladzola, amawoneka ngati wamng'ono komanso wokongola. Pali matenda a Dorian Grey pano.
Kuti muchotse izi, akatswiri amalimbikitsa kuti musinthe zina ndi zina: kusamalira thanzi lanu, kusewera masewera, kupeza zosangalatsa zina.
Tisaiwale kuti unyamata umadalira kwambiri mawonekedwe komanso mawonekedwe amkati mwamunthu. Kumbukirani kuti ndi wachichepere - yemwe samakalamba mumtima!
Matenda a Adele Hugo
Matenda a Adele Hugo, kapena matenda a Adele, ndimatenda amisala omwe amakhala ndi chizolowezi chosakonda chikondi, chimodzimodzi mwamphamvu ndi mankhwala.
Matenda a Adele amatchedwa kukonda kwathunthu komanso kwamuyaya, kukondana kowawa komwe sikungayankhidwe.
Matendawa adatchedwa Adele Hugo - mwana womaliza, wachisanu wa wolemba wotchuka waku France a Victor Hugo.
Adele anali msungwana wokongola kwambiri komanso waluso. Komabe, atayamba kukondana ndi woyang'anira Chingerezi Albert Pinson ali ndi zaka 31, zizindikiro zoyambirira za kudwala zidawonekera.
Popita nthawi, chikondi chake chidakula ndikukhala osokoneza bongo. Adele adakopa Pinson, adauza aliyense za chibwenzi chake ndi ukwati wake, adasokoneza moyo wake, adakhumudwitsa ukwati wake, ndikufalitsa mphekesera kuti adabereka mwana wobadwa naye (yemwe palibe umboni) ndipo, akumadzitcha yekha mkazi wake, adabatizidwa mwa iye yekha zopeka.
Pamapeto pake, Adele adataya umunthu wake wonse, wokonzedwa ndi zomwe adamwa. Ali ndi zaka 40, Adele adapita kuchipatala cha amisala, komwe amakumbukira Pinson wokondedwa wake tsiku lililonse ndipo amamutumizira makalata akuulula. Asanamwalire, ndipo adakhala zaka 84, Adele atasokonezeka adabwereza dzina lake.
Anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a Adele amalangizidwa kuti asatengere konse kuyanjana ndi munthu amene amamwa mankhwalawo, achotse zinthu zonse zomwe sizikukumbutsani za chinthuchi, asinthireni kuzinthu zina zosangalatsa, azilankhulana pafupipafupi ndi abale ndi abwenzi ndipo, ngati zingatheke, asinthe chilengedwe - pitani kutchuthi kapena musunthe kwathunthu kumalo ena.
Matenda a Munchausen
Munchausen Syndrome ndi vuto lomwe limakokomeza kapena kupangitsa kuti munthu adwale matenda ena kuti athe kukayezetsa, kulandira chithandizo, kuchipatala, ngakhale kuchitidwa opaleshoni.
Zifukwa za khalidweli sizikumveka bwino. Zomwe zimafotokozedwera pazomwe zimayambitsa Munchausen's syndrome ndikuti kunamizira matenda kumapangitsa kuti anthu omwe ali ndi matendawa azisamalidwa, kusamalidwa, kumveredwa chisoni komanso kuthandizidwa pamaganizidwe omwe alibe.
Odwala omwe ali ndi matenda a Munchausen amakonda kukana mawonekedwe azizindikiro zawo, ngakhale ataperekedwa ndi umboni wofanizira. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mbiri yakugonedwa mchipatala chifukwa chazofanizira.
Popanda chidwi ndi zizindikilo zawo, odwala omwe ali ndi matenda a Munchausen nthawi zambiri amakhala amanyazi komanso amwano. Pokana kukana chithandizo cha katswiri wina, wodwalayo amatembenukira kwa wina.
White Kalulu Syndrome
Kodi mukukumbukira White Rabbit wochokera ku Alice ku Wonderland yemwe adadandaula kuti: “Ah, tinyanga tanga! Ah, makutu anga! Ndachedwa kwambiri! "
Koma ngakhale simunawerengepo ntchito za Lewis Carroll, ndiye kuti mwina mwapezeka kuti muli mumkhalidwe wofanana.
Ngati izi sizichitika kawirikawiri, ndiye kuti palibe chifukwa chodandaulira. Ngati kuchedwa kosalekeza ndikwabwino kwa inu, ndiye kuti mutha kutengeka ndi zomwe zimatchedwa White Rabbit syndrome, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndi nthawi yoti musinthe china chake.
Yesani malangizo angapo osavuta:
- Ikani mawotchi onse mnyumbamo kutsogolo mphindi 10 kuti mukonzekere mwachangu. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti njirayi imagwira ntchito ngakhale mukumvetsetsa bwino kuti nthawi ili pachangu.
- Gawani zochitika zanu malinga ndi kufunikira kwawo. Mwachitsanzo, zofunika kapena zazing'ono, zachangu komanso zosafulumira.
- Onetsetsani kuti mwalemba zomwe mukufuna kuchita m'mawa uliwonse, ndikulemba zomwe mwachita madzulo.
Zolemba ziwiri zikuthandizani kumvetsetsa mutuwu mwatsatanetsatane: Lamulo 5 Lachiwiri ndi Kuzengereza.
Matenda a masiku atatu amonke
Mwina anthu ambiri kamodzi pamiyoyo yawo adayamba bizinesi yatsopano (kaya kusewera masewera, kuphunzira Chingerezi, kuwerenga mabuku, ndi zina zambiri), kenako nkuisiya patangopita nthawi yochepa. Ichi ndi chomwe chimatchedwa masiku atatu a monk syndrome.
Ngati izi zibwerezedwa pafupipafupi, ndiye kuti zitha kusokoneza moyo wanu, kusokoneza kukwaniritsa zolinga zofunika kwambiri.
Kuti muthane ndi "monk masiku atatu" syndrome, tikulimbikitsidwa kutsatira malamulo awa:
- Osadzikakamiza, koma yesetsani kupeza zomwe zingakukhudzeni. Mwachitsanzo, kuthamanga m'mawa kungakhale "kuzunza" komanso njira yosangalatsa yamaganizidwe.
- Osapanga mapulani a Napoleon (mwachitsanzo: kuyambira mawa ndikudya, kuyamba kusewera masewera ndikuphunzira zilankhulo zitatu zakunja). Chifukwa chake mutha kupanikizika mosavuta ndikuwotcha.
- Dzikumbutseni nokha nthawi zonse za cholinga chomwe mukuchitira ichi kapena ntchitoyo.
Matenda a Othello
Matenda a Othello ndi matenda omwe amadzionetsera kuti amachitira nsanje mnzake. Munthu amene ali ndi vutoli amakhala wansanje ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, akuimba mlandu theka linalo kuti zachitika kale kapena kuti akufuna kupandukira boma.
Matenda a Othello amadziwonetsera ngakhale palibe chifukwa ndi chifukwa cha izi.
Kuphatikiza apo, anthu amapenga kuchokera kwa iye: amayang'anitsitsa zomwe amakonda, kugona kwawo kumasokonezeka, sangadye mwachizolowezi, amakhala ndi mantha nthawi zonse osaganizira chilichonse kupatula kuti akuti akunamizidwa.
Chinthu chokha chomwe mungachite nokha kuti muthetse vutoli ndi kuwona mtima kwathunthu, kukambirana momasuka komanso kuyesa kuchotsa zifukwa zilizonse za nsanje. Ngati izi sizikuthandizani, mungafunikire kulumikizana ndi katswiri kuti akuthandizeni ndi chithandizo choyenera.
Matenda a Stockholm
Stockholm Syndrome ndi liwu lofotokozera za chitetezo chodzitchinjiriza-chopanda chidziwitso, kumverana kapena kumvana kumodzi komwe kumachitika pakati pa wozunzidwayo ndi wankhanza pakamugwira, kumugwira, kumugwiritsa ntchito kapena kuwopseza zachiwawa.
Mothandizidwa ndi kutengeka kwamphamvu, ogwidwawo amayamba kumvera chisoni omwe adawatenga, amalungamitsa zomwe akuchita, ndipo pamapeto pake amazindikira, kutengera malingaliro awo ndikuwona kudzipereka kwawo kukhala kofunikira kukwaniritsa cholinga chimodzi.
Mwachidule, ichi ndi chodabwitsa chamaganizidwe, chofotokozedwa poti wozunzidwayo amadzazidwa ndi chisoni kwa wankhanzayo.
Matenda a ku Yerusalemu
Jerusalem Syndrome ndimavuto amisala ochepa, mtundu wachinyengo chaulemerero komanso chinyengo chaumesiya, momwe alendo kapena mlendo ku Yerusalemu amaganiza ndikumverera kuti ali ndi mphamvu zaumulungu komanso zaulosi ndipo akuwoneka kuti ndiwofanizira ndi ngwazi ina ya m'Baibulo, yemwe amapatsidwa ntchito kupulumutsa dziko.
Chodabwitsa ichi chimatengedwa ngati psychosis ndipo chimatengera kuchipatala kuchipatala chamisala.
Ziwerengero zikuwonetsa kuti Ayuda, Akhrisitu ndi Asilamu, mosasamala kanthu za chipembedzo, ali ndi vuto la Jerusalem mofanana.
Chifukwa chake, tidasanthula ma syndromes 10 amisala omwe amapezeka masiku ano. Zachidziwikire, alipo ena ambiri, koma tasankha zosangalatsa kwambiri ndipo, mwa lingaliro lathu, ndizofunikira pakati pawo.
Mapeto ake, ndikulimbikitsani kuwerenga zolemba ziwiri zomwe zatchuka kwambiri ndikupeza yankho labwino pakati pa owerenga athu. Izi ndi Zolakwa Zamalingaliro ndi Zoyambira za Logic.
Ngati muli ndi malingaliro aliwonse pazomwe zafotokozedwa zamaganizidwe, lembani mu ndemanga.